Family Pictures, Visitors, and More....

I've meant to blog for a long time now. Nevertheless, it was still surprising to look at my blog and realize my last post was over a month ago. How did that even happen? Anthon looks so different already! Well, Matthew is off hiking today with a work buddy, so it leaves me with some extra time to catch you all up on the happenings at the Hutchinson household.

Among other things, we enjoyed a visit from Matthew's mom, my mama--which included family pictures, Father's Day,  a six-month appointment, a seventh-month 'birthday', lots of walks, sunshine, rain, oh, and a trip to Palmyra!

I'm not really sure where to start, so I guess I'll just jump right in! If I were going to apply good writing technique, I would probably go in the order in which I just introduced topics....

I mostly  just don't feel like doing that. So...keep up! :P

FamBam Pictures 'Mam.... 

We used our fancy camera to take some fancy family pictures. Anthon is 7 months in them; I figure family pictures semi-annually is a good goal to shoot for--if not at least nice pictures of Anthon that often. We took advantage of my mom being here by asking her to take the pictures for us. Living in upstate makes it easier since our back patio is pretty much the equivalent of a photo studio backdrop... Anywho--she was kind enough to take them for us! They're not really edited or exactly how I want them yet, but you get the idea.

This one is obviously not going to get hung on any walls....but Anthon's face was just too cute not to share!

gaaaah. How did we end up with a baby this cute?

bahahaha. Someone, please write in with a caption for this picture for me.

 

If you haven't noticed...our child has just about the most expressive face known to mankind. Although you would surely get a kick out of it if I posted every single picture we took....it would also take me about 1,000 hours to upload them... Also, let's be honest....you wouldn't really look that closely at them...

 

That's okay. We do. And trust me, we don't really ever get tired of it.

Our very most awesome photographer of the day :) Thanks mama!

'Wait...are we seriously still taking pictures?'

anddd...one last picture with Nana :)

 

Father's Day

 

For Father's Day, Matthew got an Easy Score basketball hoop. He had rugburns by that afternoon from running/rolling around, making shots into the family room from the kitchen and from corners at every which angle. Don't worry, he was commentating it all the while as well. haha. I actually was at Toys 'R Us Again today and found many other things he'd enjoy. I'm fairly certain that any birthday or holiday of Matthew's would be a happy one with a present from Toys 'R Us.

 

Bedroom Furniture

Wahoooo!!!! Our bedroom furniture is finally here! And, as an extra bonus, the delivery men brought it not only up the stairs to our door, but also put it in our bedroom! We had been told it would just be left on the curb out front of our apartment!

...I may not have mentioned what I had thought they were MEANT to do (leave it on the curb) only after they had finished hauling it all up the stairs and putting it into our bedroom.....

Does that make me a bad person?

I think not. Especially since he double checked his paper work and said they were actually supposed to bring it in ;)

 

After spending hours setting up our furniture, Matthew hauled and flattened all of the boxes to our cardboard bin in our complex (A good football field away). I figured we were going to wait a day (or a few), and just get to it when we could. He knew it would bother me to have it out for so long and just went straight to putting them away that night. I am such a lucky girl to have such an awesome husband.

 

Visits From Grandmas

Yayyy!!!! Both Matthew's mom, Darla and my mama had the chance to visit!

 

Darla was here for an extended weekend, and my mom was here for 11 days. We LOVE visitors! It also makes living so far away seem much more doable, knowing family can come to us and still be bit parts of our lives (I know, my mom wasn't happy to hear me say that...)

 

 7 Months

 This cute little goober is 7 months old. Can you believe it?? I can't. That's five months from a YEAR OLD!

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat??!!!!

 

His favorite things include:

Avacado

Bananas

Really, any food or anything flavored

Scoot/Crawling on his belly to wherever he wants to go

His bathtime rubber ducky

His bouncer

Blowing rasberries

Going on walks (in the stroller or with the Ergo--or just being held)

Having someone nearby, or at least knowing I'll be coming back soon if I leave (really, I tell him that...and he lasts much longer when I do...haha)

Books (he scoots past toys on the floor to his bookcase and grabs books out of it)

Keys

Putting anything in his mouth he can

 

His not so favorite things:

Being left alone or feeling alone, even if he's actually not.

 

Newest developments:

Crawling (still not with his tummy off the ground though)

Mimicking (if we click blocks together, he will do it after)

 Being cute with dad...

 

 Going for the monkey. Matthew isn't actually preventing him from getting it, though it appears otherwise. haha

After a walk. He loves those darn keys, try as I might to be sneaky and not have him notice that I have them..

 

Random Buys..

My mom bought us a changing pad! Oh my gosh. SO wonderful. We had a changing table, but had never gotten a pad, so I usually just changed him on the floor. LIFE SAVER.

 

Is this new church shirt not the cutest thing you've ever seen? I saw it at the thrift store, but didn't want to pay $4 for it. (I know...I'm cheap). We came back two days later, and BAM....it had a blue tag. Guess which 1/2 off day we happened to come back on? Yep--blue tag day.  

 

After being SO bummed to have JUST missed a Bumbo at a Consignment Shop that had called to let me know they had one in... I found one on the Online Garage Sale Facebook page here! ...for $5!!! I've NEVER seen one that cheap. It's funny (and WONDERFUL) how things work out :) Granted...right now, I think he leans over touching the lime green rubbery interesting-ness more than he actually eats at this point when he's in it...haha.

 

 Russian Thoughtfulness

Chelsea Quinn, one of my mission companions, made a trip to Russia not long ago. One of my dearest friends and converts from Russia, Olga, who was baptized shortly after I left, sent her with a MASSIVE box of insanely delicious Russian chocolate. Oh, and an awesome mug for Anthon. I hope to be as giving, thoughtful, and selfless as Olga is. It was so incredibly kind and such a fun piece of Russia to get from so far away. She is the one to the right of me, by the way. And her daughter is in front of us.

 

 

 I shared :)

Thank you Olga!

 ha...I think Anthon is a fan.

 

Palmyra, New York

I know, I'm cheating by uploading my Instagram collage...but it seemed much quicker/more efficient than doing each of them.

Palmyra is the place where Joseph Smith, the prophet of the restoration lived. To hear about his story, click here . I know that he was a prophet of God, just like Moses and Abraham.  I know that he truly saw God the Father and Jesus Christ in that sacred grove where we walked. If you don't know his story, please watch that link. It's changed my life for the better. As that clip states, the Book of Mormon is the convincing evidence of the truthfulness of that story. I know that reading the Book of Mormon brings peace and meaning to anyone that will read and pray about it with real intent and a desire to know truth of God. I know that the restored gospel seals families together for eternity and strengthens us while we are here on earth together.

 

 

In conclusion, life is great for us. I am continuously more amazed of how awesome our apartment, surroundings, ward, and just life overall are here.

 



 

 

One of those moments. . .

There have been a few times in my life where I've looked at something, or stepped back from a moment and taken a mental "click" of something I'd always want to remember. One of those times was as I was sitting in the backseat of my parents' minivan as a twelve-year-old looking at a castle built in the middle of a river somewhere in Germany that I always wanted to remember. I don't know what the name of the castle is, or even what city it was in, but I'll always remember that moment. 

Being a mother has provided me with many opportunities in the last six months to take mental pictures. However, tonight, I took a mental video for what I think was the first time. Anthon had his six-month doctor's appointment today and has been a little out of it from his shots. I went in to feed him at about 9:30, and, after eating, he just laid his head back on my arm. He looked exhausted, but didn't close his eyes. Instead, he just got this glazed, zoned out look to them, and stared at the chair behind my shoulder. After about thirty seconds, I decided he might have fallen asleep with his eyes still open. Then, his eyes moved to my face, focused, and he smiled the sweetest smile I've ever seen. Like, the milk-drunken smiles he used to make as a newborn after eating, only...it was when his eyes focused on me. He then reached up with his right hand and touched my face. He kept his hand there for a few seconds, then dropped it to his side before falling to sleep.

Mental video taken. Mental video stored.

Being a mother is magical. Yes, it's often sleepless, sometimes stressful, and almost always demanding. But I don't know what my life would be like without seeing this sweet little face each night as I put him down and pause just long enough before walking out of his room to ask God to watch over him as he sleeps that night. 

Cheesy, but, so true. 

Life as a Mama

To all those mothers out there, we know how the days of getting "nothing" done go. As far as this is concerned, I love an article my mom posted online a few weeks back that speaks volumes to motherhood. Have a read, if you haven't yet. It talks about a paradigm shift for a mother who was struggling with a crying baby and how a friend's advice changed her perspective. My favorite excerpt reads as follows:

And that friend listened well, and gave me a good moment of compassion. And then she made a little suggestion.

She said “I think you’d do a lot better if you start to see the fussy baby thing as your current thing. Like, your job. Anticipate it. Plan for it. Set time aside to literally hold and rock and love on that fussy baby. Otherwise you’ll just be frustrated and find yourself resenting him.” 

I knew she had something there.

I was desperate and willing to try anything. I understood that this would mean getting less done each afternoon. Dinner might need to be simpler, and I might need to busy my two-year old with a little extra cartoon time or strolling with me in the park. But I agreed to try shifting my perspective.

And boom! It changed everything. EVERY. THING. 

Every afternoon, I literally planned for a fussy baby. When he started to cry, I smiled understanding that at that moment–That was my greatest job. His crying was not an interruption in my day. It was my day. I looked at it as my calling for that season.

Anthon has been sick for about a month now with a cold that we just can't kick. It's been a rough little bit, but this article just spoke to me. I applied it, and, it really did just change everything. People don't talk about resenting their babies because well, no mom wants to ever think/admit she does! But, when your baby is getting up every hour or two hours of the night after they're a few months old, there's bound to be at least a tiny ounce of that feeling--an ounce of self pity, for having to get up oneeee moreee timeee. You can deny it, say it's not like that for you, but it's just the truth. Rather than giving in to this feeling, we can look at this time in our child's life as we might do for a timeline at work, or an assignment at school. It won't always be there, or this way--but, dangit, we are going to do all in our power to do it right and to the best of our ability here and now at every moment for him/her.

This may mean something different for different moms, but, for me, right now, it means waking up whenever Anthon cries at night. It means keeping him home and trying to avoid him getting worse. It means staying in the house with him so I can let him go to sleep at a moment's notice, because I know he needs it. It means being humble enough to let Matthew help soothe and comfort Anthon, rather than insisting on doing it myself. Right now, it often means not doing dishes, vacuuming, or even talking on the phone while he's taking a nap, because heaven knows he needs it, and I don't want to be the reason he doesn't get it. 

Really, when I first had Anthon, I was amazed at just how much being a mother really is a full-time job. But, I am more amazed every day. Sometimes, I feel like I have days where I'm not "productive." It's on these days that I remind myself about that woman's post. There will be days where there will be dishes in the sink when Matthew gets home, when I don't get dressed until 4 PM, and when we have cereal for dinner. On those days, I remind myself of my calling for this season. 

On those days, I'm grateful for a husband who never thinks I do too little. I'm grateful for a little boy, who, even on his sick days, smiles so big at me that I can't help but to have my eyes fill with tears out of love for him. On those days, I'm grateful for the gospel of Jesus Christ and the knowledge that families are forever, and that--if there's anything worthy of my time and energies, it's this. 

..there's always a limb moving...

My wonderful husband, making an Easter egg hunt fun for our four-month old

Anthon, with his winnings :)

Anthon on our first walk outside :)

Dad getting Anthon's jumper set up; he LOVES it. 

Sometimes we go out on our balcony and watch the trees move with the wind. These are quiet moments I love (and apparently, sometimes ruin by taking pictures during them... )

We started Anthon on solids this week. Not to worry, one diaper change into it I realized there's no need to rush solids. Not because he didn't love them (he did...) But we're back to breastfeeding only until he's 6 months old and it's actually out of necessity.... hahaha.

He loves this little car that Lin and Cathy sent us.

Who says you can't wear a moose and camo in the spring? 

Not this guy! :)

I found him sleeping on his side for the first time today. I realized the other day how much I miss holding him while he sleeps. When he was just born, I did it all the time. But, we try to put him down in his crib these days. I cherish the late nights he's up and falls asleep in my arms after eating.

Anthon's favorite things of late include: 

Baths

Pooping in the bath

Solids

Gas Drops (he gets soo excited when he sees me getting them for him and spits his bink right out)

Quality time on the couch with dad

His red car

His fuzzy white blanket

Pulling both his feet up

Looking in the mirror

Rolling every which way off of the blanket we put him on when we lay him on the floor

Gnawing on anything he can get his hands on

Not so favorite things include: 

Gas 

Pooping

and...that's pretty much it! 

Oh...and nursing on the left side. yeah yeah....TMI...but, you're the one who chose to read my blog this carefully...

I've learned why this mobile suggests ages 0 to 5 months. Not because it's a danger, but because it goes from something peaceful and calming to a means of torture/taunting. haha. I took it off his bed because it now KILLS him that he can't touch it! He will just sit there and reach up as high as he can; I started to detach it and hang it so he could reach and play with it. 

At his four month appointment last month, he weighed in at 16 lbs 8 oz (74th %), 26.5'' long (90th %) and his head measured 45 cm (96th %)

I'm loving life as a mom. I'm so privileged to be the one this little man trusts completely. I love him more than I ever thought possible.

Mom Song